As a Sex and Intimacy Coach and host of the "Good Girls Talk About Sex" podcast, I have the pleasure of talking with women about their sex lives Every.Single.Day!
I LOOOOOVE these conversations - honestly, I can't imagine anything more fun! And when my friends and I get together, we ALWAYS end up talking about our sex lives. And nothing is out of bounds...
Patty's explorations with a new partner? Yep.Carla's latest kink craze? Absolutely.Melissa's challenge with orgasming since going on an anti-depressant? Definitely.And OF COURSE - sex toys!
That's a regular Thursday evening for me, but I know that's not true for a lot of people. It takes a lot of courage and vulnerability to talk about sex -- even with your closest girlfriends.
I'm here to help you create a safe and warm space where you can all let down your guard and talk about what's really going on (or not going on!) in your bedroom.
You'll be amazed at what comes out of letting yourself be real and raw in this type of group. I see it over and over again - when one person gets vulnerable, other people say, "I thought I was the only one who felt that way!" It can be life-changing to realize that you're not alone.
🌟 You'll come out of the evening with stronger bonds and knowing that, no matter what you're dealing with, there's a group of people who have your back. 🌟
Remember how fun it was to have teenage sleepovers where you'd do each other’s nails, braid each other’s hair, and gossip about kissing and relationships?!? These Adult PJ Parties are as close as we can get to that experience during the time of social distancing.
This is a space where you get to have that same fun again - a whole luxurious evening of girl talk. I'll lead you in a no-holds-barred evening of girlfriends talking about sex, relationships, toys, kink, orgasms … nothing is too taboo! Anything you can think of, we can talk about it!
Even better, after months apart, it will give you a night of connection and intimacy with your favorite people (or a group of people you'll never see again, if you'd prefer!)
Gather a group of your closest girlfriends – between 3 and 6 people, including you – and schedule an evening when you can all spend two nourishing hours on Zoom.
Before we get together, each of you fills out a brief survey about which sex-and-relationships topics interest you most.
On the appointed evening, everybody joins the Zoom call adorned in your favorite PJs (yes, there will be time to show them off! 😍) and stocked with your favorite drinks and snacks. Just like a real slumber party, you can paint your nails or do a face mask, or any other fun thing that feels good to you!
Our evening will begin with a round of introductions and a getting-to-know-you game (in case not everyone in your group knows each other at the beginning, we’ll make sure everyone feels safe and secure together before we get to the REALLY good stuff!)
Then I'll lead you into an open and free-flowing conversation about the sexy topics that interest the group – Favorite sex positions? Forbidden fantasies? Talking to your partner about sex? It’s ALL on the table!
We’ll conclude the evening with a final exercise so everyone leaves feeling seen and appreciated. ❤️
Of course not! Just like in sex, you get to set the boundaries that you’re comfortable with for the evening. Listen as much as you like and participate as you are comfortable.
I hope that this PJ PARTY will be fun for all involved, but if something happens during the evening that causes upset for you, we’ll make space for you to be where you are.
(Psst - Here’s the thing about our secrets: we’re terrified to share them because we might be judged. But the opposite happens - you share your secrets, and you find a deeper sense of closeness and connection with the people you love. I've written an article for a medical journal on this topic, which you can read here.)
No recordings of our gathering are allowed and everything said within the group is private. I occasionally use concepts that were brought up in a group as a teaching tool for future podcasts, videos, writing, etc., but it always remains completely anonymous.
🎉🎉🎉 This is a great girls-night event. We can also make it extra special as a socially-distant bachelorette party or a birthday party! 🎉🎉🎉
Not currently having sex? Totally okay! You don’t have to have a partner to enjoy the gossip!
Never had sex? That’s fine too! You don’t have to be sexually active to have a relationship with your sexuality.
Worried you’ll be judged for your favorite activities or wildest fantasies? That’s what I’m here for – it’s my job to make this a space where everyone feels seen, heard, and accepted. I promise that the vibe of these parties is one of acceptance – and if you feel otherwise, I’ll give you your money back.
This is an LGBTQ+ friendly space, so everyone except cis-gender men is invited! This is an open and affirming space for people of all races, religions, sexual orientations, relationship preferences, and backgrounds.
Want to organize a party with a group of 3 to 6 of your best friends (including you)?
Fill out the form below, and we’ll get started!
The cost of the party is $299, regardless of how many people attend.
(Psst - Would you feel more comfortable joining a group where you don't know anyone, so you can share all your questions and secrets with people you'll never have to see again? Click here and we'll make it happen!)
You’ll be transported to a most fun, enlightening and engaging experience that your younger self would have longed for. And you’ll get to meet one of the most exceptional woman facilitator for creating a safe place to feel seen and heard.~L.S.
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Select your time zone and also what time of day and day of the week you think will be best for your group. As soon as I get your deposit, we will connect to choose a specific day and time for your party (I can help you get all your friends on the same page to pick a date).
Please note:
If your group is ready to go, let's do this thing!
Refundable for 14 days while you confirm your group's calendar